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  • Poll: How much do you spend on birthday gifts?


    How much do you spend on birthday gifts? -

    We went through a few years after my oldest graduated from preschool when we went to just a few birthday parties each year. But lately, it seems like there’s at least one party per month, and so I started wondering:

    How much does everyone spend on kids’ birthday gifts?

    If I have one of those fun Target gift cards that’s also a toy or novelty, I’ll load $15 or $20 on it, depending on the kid and other circumstances. But lately, the parties have been for kids who play sports with my boys, so I’ve been buying $25 gift cards at Lids.

    I’m sure how much you spend on birthday gifts depends in large part on your area, and who you hang out with. But just for fun, I’ve created a poll at Survey Monkey, and if there are enough responses, I’ll compile and post them here.

    Once you’ve answered the poll, feel free to come back here and leave a comment with the details you think we should know – where you live, how old the kids are that you’re buying for, what types of gifts you usually buy, etc.

    Take the poll here.

    Image via by antpkr.

    Tutorial: How to Make a Money Lei


    How to Make a Money Lei at

    I’ve been the room parent for both of my children ever since they entered kindergarten, and I think the biggest reason I’ve been asked to be room parent each year is that the teachers know they’ll receive a money lei as their holiday gift from the class πŸ˜‰ As you can see above, it’s not immediately obvious that the lei is made up of 100 $1 bills, and it’s something of a show piece. The drawback is that the lei would have to be dismantled in order to spend the money, but when I’ve asked if the teachers would prefer to just have the cash, I’ve been assured that they would prefer the lei instead.

    I’ve also been asked many times, “How do you make that?” As impressive as the finished lei looks, it’s actually very easy to make, so I’ve prepared this step-by-step tutorial to show you how to make one yourself. Since I collect money from the entire class, it’s actually a very cheap project. But I will be upfront in saying it’s tedious and time-consuming, so just be prepared.

    Click here to see the tutorial

    Teacher Appreciation Week 2012


    Teacher Appreciation Week starts today, and as my son’s class room parent, it’s my job to organize the class gift. In addition to a sentimental gift graciously prepared by another mom, I thought their teacher would enjoy something small everyday. Pulling together ideas from a couple of different web sites, I’m doing the following:

    Monday – A tube of hand cream with a note that says “You deserve a hand”
    Why yes, a tube of Nivea Creme that I got for $0.34 at Target!

    Tuesday – A container of pushpins with a note that says “You are ‘sharp’ as a tack”

    Wednesday – A pad of post-its and labels with a note that says “Just a ‘note’ to let you know you are a wonderful teacher”

    Thursday – A Scotch desk-grip dispenser with a note that says “We are stuck on you”

    On Friday, we’ll give her the sentimental gift and some cash, since – like most teachers I know – their teacher spends quite a bit of her own money on her classroom and supplies.

    Inspiration found at Surviving a Teacher’s Salary and Skip to My Lou.

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    Save Money by Keeping a Gift Wrap Center


    I’ve mentioned the gift box before – it’s a stash of gifts bought on sale for when you need to give a gift. But being out with a friend who bought not just a birthday gift but also a gift bag and tissue paper reminded me of the corollary: The Gift Wrap Center.

    My gift wrap “center” is actually a bunch of containers in a closet. There’s a tall plastic bin for rolls of wrapping paper, a bag stuffed with gift bags, and boxes of ribbon. I also keep some cards on hand – inexpensive all-occasion and blank cards. Back in my pre-motherhood days, I also kept some handmade cards around but I don’t have time for that anymore.

    The paper, bags, ribbon and cards are items I’ve collected over the years, and which I’m constantly collecting. I buy wrapping paper when it’s on clearance after the winter holidays – there are always a few patterns and solid colors that can be used year round. The same goes for ribbon and tissue paper.

    I’m also a big believer in reusing gift bags. They’re expensive for what they are, and it’s rough on the environment to discard them after just one use, or even a few uses. So whenever we receive a gift and the bag is in good shape, it goes into the closet for when I need to give a gift.

    My gift wrap center reduces stress, because I’m never scrambling to find wrapping paper or a gift bag. And it also saves me money, because I never have to over spend on last-minute supplies.

    My favorite necklace: Mommy Tags


    Since the World’s Smallest Letter was such a big hit, I want to share another great gift idea, courtesy of my darling husband again (and I’m afraid that I have no idea where he finds these marvelous things). This is actually a gift I received a few years ago, but now that the boys are getting older – and I don’t have to worry about breakage or injury – I can actually wear it, and I’ve found myself going back to it several times a week: it’s the Mommy Tags necklace pictured here. Marc gave it to me after Alex’s birth, and my necklace now has a second tag commemorating Tyler’s birth as well.

    I love that the necklace is simple and goes with just about anything – that’s the main reason I wear it so often. Also, even though I went a long period without wearing it when the kids were very young, it’s barely tarnished so it’s very easy to care for.

    I have to admit, I was very pleased that Marc had picked a very reasonably priced gift for me – these days, it’s easy to find stories about the extravagant “birth gifts” that some new mothers receive. This necklace is $75 – not cheap, but not crazy expensive either. Unfortunately, I can’t tell how much they charge for shipping. This would be especially appropriate for Mother’s Day, or as a gift from the kids to Mom on Valentine’s Day.

    Note: I’m not affiliated with Mommy Tags in any way, I just like my necklace a lot!

    The best gift I received: The World’s Smallest Postal Service


    The best gift I received last month came from Marc, of course: It’s a letter from The World’s Smallest Postal Service. As you can see, it’s literally a tiny letter, with addresses on the envelope and a letter inside. The text of the letter is customized. Marc chose the chorus of a song that’s special to us (say it with me: Awww!).

    The letter comes with a small magnifying glass in a glassine envelope that’s sent out in a larger cardboard envelope. The outer cardboard envelope sat on Marc’s desk for a couple of weeks and I never had a clue what was in it.

    Valentine’s Day isn’t that far off, and I highly recommend The World’s Smallest Postal Office as a sweet romantic gift. In fact, in addition to the Letter option, there are Valentine/Anniversary, Birthday, and Tooth Fairy card options. All are just $8.

    And, if you’re in the Bay Area, you can actually visit the World’s Smallest Post Office in person.