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  • What I’m Reading Now

    What CFO is Reading - chieffamilyofficer.com

    For better or for worse, I tend to read multiple books at the same time. I thought it would be fun to share what I’m reading now, and ask you to share what you’re reading (and would recommend) in the comments.

    The Circle Maker: Praying Circles Around Your Biggest Dreams and Greatest Fears by Mark Batterson:

    I put this book on my Amazon Wishlist over a year ago after Money Saving Mom mentioned it, and I purchased it when there was a temporary price drop. According to the Kindle app on my phone, I’m only 11% of the way through it, but as I read small sections at a time, I’ve been considering Batterson’s thoughts on prayer, and I’ve found myself praying more. Not in circles, exactly, but certainly more specifically than I usually do. It should be interesting to see if this book produces any more changes in me.

    The Good Mother Myth: Redefining Motherhood to Fit Reality, a collection of essays about not buying into the ideal that to be a good mother, you have to give your kids a perfect, idyllic childhood:

    The Kindle app on my phone says I’m about 20% off of the way through this book. I’ve been reading one essay at a time, and I find that I relate to all of them. It’s been something of a revelation how much I’ve bought into The Good Mother Myth. I don’t think I’ve been unreasonable in what I’ve tried to give my children, but these essays are causing me to do some self-examination and to ask myself what’s really important to me and to my children.

    As my husband has pointed out more than once, these priorities are not necessarily the same. For example, I feel terribly guilty if I don’t cook dinner for my family. But the reality is, my kids usually don’t eat what I cook, unless it’s hot dogs, mac and cheese, or other kid-friendly fare that I’m sick of {and my husband too, usually}. So if the kids are eating food from Chipotle, I shouldn’t have the chorus in my head singing “You’re a bad mother.”

    Like all of us, I’m good at some things and not others. Above all, I am not, and cannot be, a perfect mother. This book is helping me accept that, because I’m not alone.

    Sigma Force series by James Rollins:

    I actually read Book 8 of this series (Bloodline) first because it was highly rated and a Kindle Daily Deal for $1.99 so I figured I’d give it a shot. It’s Tom Clancy meets the Da Vinci Code, and if you like those types of books, I think you’ll love Sigma Force.

    So far, I’ve also read Book 2 in the series (Map of Bones), because it was $1.99 at the time. Book 1 (Sandstorm) was $5.99, so I bought the paperback for my dad for Father’s Day and told him that I get to read it when he’s done. {Of course, it’s since dropped to $1.99 and now I’m sorely tempted to buy it for myself without waiting.} As you might guess, I’m really looking forward to reading the rest of this series :)

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    Has anyone read Robert Fulghum’s Third Wish?

    Ten to fifteen years ago, I really enjoyed reading Robert Fulghum’s books – you probably know him best as the author of All I Really Need to Know I Learned in Kindergarten.My favorite book of his is one that was published a few years later, called From Beginning to End:: The Rituals of Our Lives.(It unfortunately appears to be out of publication, but fortunately, there’s a thriving market for used books these days.)

    Amazon sent me an email about Robert Fulghum’s new book, Third Wish.I eagerly clicked over to read the summary, and was surprised – shocked, even – to discover that it’s a novel. And not just any novel, but one with music composed especially for it, and apparently with a unique (or contrived, depending on the reviewer) writing style.

    I like Fulghum’s philosophy and perspective. I love that he seems to truly care about being a good person. But I’m not so sure this novel is worth reading. So has anyone read it, and if so, what did you think?

    Disclosure: I’m an Amazon affiliate, so any purchase you make after entering Amazon through a link on Chief Family Officer supports this site at no additional cost to you. Thank you!

    A Different Kind of Activity Book

    The Dangerous Book for Boys is apparently a huge seller in Great Britain, though I hadn’t heard of it until reading an article that said the book is as politically incorrect and fun as it gets for boys. Activities include how to tie different knots, make a periscope, and oh yeah, hunt, kill, skin and cook a rabbit. The book also includes stories about heroes, battles, astronomy and other topics. The general gist of the book seems to be that boys should be allowed, even encouraged, to do those activities that boys have done throughout the ages.

    It might be politically incorrect to say that we should raise our boys differently from girls. But ever since Alex started selecting his own toys (construction vehicles) and expressing his own interests (garbage trucks), I’ve been convinced that, generally speaking, boys and girls naturally gravitate toward different toys and activities. And I don’t believe in fighting those tendencies but in using them to teach my children the important values in life. So I’m looking forward to using this book or something similar with Alex and Tyler some day – this particular one is for kids in grades 4 through 8, and at least in England, there are now a bunch of knockoffs.

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