From my own perspective, as an only child who always wanted a sibling, I am very happy to have two kids of my own. (Although I must admit that I had a very privileged childhood because I was the only child.) But I am glad that my children will have someone who understands how horrible Mom and Dad are (I am so not looking forward to the teen years). And I’m especially grateful that they’ll always have each other – my greatest fear during my teens until I got married was that if something happened to my parents, I would be alone in the world.
Still, as an only child, and as a woman who suffered two miscarriages before Alex was born, I’ve never had a negative feeling toward parents with only one child. My first inclination is to think that perhaps they couldn’t have a second child. And I have friends who’ve decided that one child completes their family, and it’s the right decision for them.
What are your thoughts on “onlys”?