This post over at My Two Dollars, Moving Is Going To Save Us A Ton Of Money And Improve Our Quality Of Life, is fascinating to me because I also live in Southern California and have periodically (briefly) thought about moving. After all, as FMF is fond of pointing out, relocating can have a hugely beneficial impact on one’s finances. And David makes some very good points: moving to New Mexico will allow him and his wife to buy a house and his wife to be a stay-at-home-mom. He also notes that the LA school system is a nightmare and that he’s not comfortable with “LA people.”
Moving might increase our net worth, but my husband and I have decided against it. For one thing, we really like LA. Sure, there are plenty of “silly” people like David described. But I think the vast majority of people in LA are very average and that like any place else, you can find wonderful people who share the same values. In fact, I’ve made some fantastic friends at work and from the breastfeeding support group I attended after my first child was born. And I like living in a big city where you can find just about anything you can think of.
Although David is right about traffic in LA being terrible – as bad or worse than you would think just from news reports if you weren’t familiar with it personally. Fortunately, my husband and I are both able to work flexible hours that usually enable us to miss the worst of rush hour. And neither of us is particularly fond of driving or road trips, so we are content to spend most of our time within a 10-mile radius of our house (and that’s actually an advantage of living in a huge city – everything you need is pretty much right there).
Speaking of house, we also already own a house. Granted, it’s a townhouse, not a single-family dwelling. But since we’ve been in our house for over five years, our mortgage payment is low, and we have a great property management company, which means we don’t have to worry about maintaining a yard or a pool and yet we are surrounded by beautiful landscaping and have a pool right outside our front door. Our commute is also quite manageable. A single-family dwelling actually doesn’t appeal to us that much because of the added maintenance, although we would love to have a small fourth bedroom. But we certainly don’t think that fourth bedroom is worth relocating. (I think David is exaggerating a bit, by the way – there are certainly areas of LA where a 2-bedroom condo goes for $1M, but there are many condos in affluent areas that are in the $500,000 range. I’m just saying that David doesn’t need to move all the way to New Mexico to find (comparatively) affordable housing.)
If we were to move, it would be for the second reason that David mentioned: the public schools. They are terrible. But we’ve decided that instead of moving, we’ll be sending our kids to private school. (More on that soon.) Most of the families will probably have more money than we do, but we’re okay with that. Yes, I will have to keep working in order to pay for tuition, but I enjoy my job and my identity as an attorney, and it sure seems a waste to have gone to law school if I’m not going to practice law. (I can say that because I still get to spend lots of time with my kids.) And I’m skeptical about whether we would get paid enough if we relocated to maintain our current comfortable lifestyle while still being able to sock as much money away for retirement as we do. Thus for us, staying put is simply the right choice.
I think it’s interesting that two families with relatively similar values can reach such different decisions about what’s right for them. (I hope I’m not being presumptuous, but from reading My Two Dollars, I feel that we have quite a bit in common.) I look forward to reading more about David’s preparations for his move and next year, about his life in New Mexico.
Note: I just noticed on David’s page the David Money Network, which is made up of pf bloggers with the first name David. I love it!